Chris Bundas –
I love women, I have all their albums. I’m the kind of guy who knows exactly what he wants… except, I seem to have a hard time finding it. I date a lot but I’m never really all that interested. However, I find myself constantly complimenting, telling her how beautiful she is anyway… because it really is true. All women are beautiful. There’s always something about every damn one of you… It could be the simplest thing, like a smile, a curve or a secret… But then, the morning after comes, the hangover kicks in… and the realization that I’m not quite as available as I thought I was the night before. Another road not taken, another ghost of what could have been to haunt me.
But, every once in a while… Someone comes a long and makes you stop dead in your tracks. You forget how to breathe when you see her, you lose your words when she looks at you and no matter where you are or what you’re doing, there she is, taunting your every thought… you just can’t stop thinking about her.
She’s beautiful, confident… when she walks into a room, every head turns to watch her glow… and for some unknown reason to you, caught in a crowd, she spots you. You catch her attention… she locks eyes with you… she smiles, and you just died and went to heaven. You’ve never seen anything that stunning and you gotta get her… Surely, this feeling means she’s the one!
So, how the hell do you get her? Well it just so happens that I’ve found myself in such a situation and will share with you, what I plan to show her.
Now, you’re a cool dude, a good lookin’ sharped dressed man… You got a lot going for you and you know you’re a catch… you just gotta show her that.
So eventually, you pick your jaw up from off the floor, take a moment to breathe and it’s game time. You play flirt with her… she smiles, laughs and flirts back. This goes on for a bit, leading up to the moment you see fit to ask for the number. You nailed it! She digs you, you got the digits. So then, you text, flirt more, plan a few dates and everything is going great! You know you want her to be your girlfriend… The question is, does she want to be your girl?
Well luckily for you, I happen to be pretty good at this getting the girl thing… It’s just the keeping her part I suck at… you’ll have to look elsewhere for advice on that. But when it comes to getting her, here’s my advice. A few proactive measures to increase the chance of making this thing you two got going on, exclusive!
4 Tips On How To Make Her Your Girlfriend
“Be different from every other guy”
If you’re dating a ‘looker’, and of course you are… she’s no stranger to having guys near and far chasing after her. You have to distinguish yourself from the pack of wolves salivating for her. But how does one do this you ask? By being different… Most guys make the mistake of dishing out played out compliments that they think women want to hear. Let me let you in on a little secret… She knows she’s attractive. And here’s another secret… so are you, hence, why you two are talking… Spend your time together acknowledging deeper things about her. Show her you view her as an entire person and not just a trophy to show off. She’ll be thinking “girlfriend” before you do… Let her know she looks sexy or beautiful when the time is right, then get back to impressing her with how well you know her as a person.
“Play the game by her rules, and only her’s”.
You want this woman to be your girlfriend right? Then don’t make that damn classic male mistake of pressuring her into it. She’s feeling you out, stay cool. If you try to “convince” her to do anything she’s not sure of yet, it’s just going to backfire… right in your face! Just keep being your awesome, cool self and keep giving her reasons to want to be around you… just don’t actually make them look like reasons. Go with her flow; relationships, at least the good ones, shouldn’t be developed by force. Be natural!
“Details, every little detail matters”.
Every little detail matters, notice everything about her. Pick out the little things that she wouldn’t expect you to catch and impress her. If you know she drinks her coffee double double, then why the hell would you bring it to her black with sugar and cream on the side? Catch my drift! It’s just little things like this that show her you’re paying attention. Even in conversation, bring up some minute detail she wouldn’t think you’d notice. It’s ok to make the grand gesture, spend money on fancy restaurants, etc. but really… women want to know that you’re paying attention to them. They want to know that they’re important to you. If you’re pointing out things her own parents may not know… chances are, she’ll fall for you.
“Make her chase you, be less accessible”.
Yes, that’s right, I said less accessible! I’ve given you a few tips on how to make yourself stand apart from the other dogs out there, but this tip is the one that will catapult you to the number one thing on her mind. If you’ve done these first three tips right, you’ll now be standing in front of two roads. Depending on what you do next, you’ll end up either her ‘boyfriend’ or ‘just friends’. Of course her closest friends will compliment her and know small details about her. But do you know what her friends won’t do… give her space! That’s what you’re gonna do, friends are always supposed to be there, not you… at least not yet. In order to distinguish yourself from a friend to a boyfriend… you have to make her miss you, think about you, crave to be with you. Be that awesome cool dude you are when you’re around her, but when you’re not… let the amazingness have time to settle in, making her think about how much she wants more of it. She’ll start to love having you close and miss you like crazy when you’re gone.
And that my fellow gentlemen… Is how to get her to see you in the ‘boyfriend’ type way.