According to chacha.com this is a list of 10 things you absolutely can’t change about a man no matter how hard any woman tries. Check out the list and see if it is accurate…
His Past- This one is obvious but some may have more skeletons in their closet than others.
Face it: He’s been with other women besides you. He’s had a few one-night stands. He’s been to places the two of you go with other people. He may have a few legal troubles or arrests in there too.
His Wandering Eye
Men can’t help it. They are created with an inner-animalistic desire to look at attractive women. It all goes back to procreation, and the reason men were put on earth to begin with.
Women are natural cleaners. If they see a soda can laying around, they pick it up and throw it away. If the sink is full of dirty dishes, they are the first to grab a sponge.
Men aren’t typically like this. There are a few out there who will pick up after themselves, but for the majority, you can follow their path through the house by the trail of garbage they leave behind.
He’s a Pack Rat
This is double trouble! Not only is your man sloppy, he also likes to keep everything under the sun, including:
•report cards from elementary school
•car parts from old vehicles
•receipts he’ll never look at again
•junk mail that can’t seem to find its way to the trash
Men tend to hold onto to friends for a long time. Most are still buds with the boys they played baseball with as a child, repaired cars with as a teenager, and bunked with in college. A man’s friends mean the world to him–and they should to you, too.
All men do it, and yours is no exception. Men don’t mean harm in telling little white lies, it’s really just a means to avoid disappointing you. And let’s be clear: white lies are not big, life-altering lies. White lies look like this:
•Saying that he took out the trash, then rushing to do it before you get home.
•Saying that he likes one of your friends, when he really doesn’t care for her at all.
•Telling you you look fantastic in what you’re wearing, when he’s really just hoping you won’t take the time to change one more time.
His Love of Sports
Your guy will always stray true to his family, his friends…and his team. Most everything in his life is scheduled around “the big game.” A team jersey probably hangs in his closet, and he’s regularly glued to the sports page in the newspaper.
His Sex Drive
Your man’s sex habits are yet another group of traits he’s less than likely to shed.
Unless your man is a runway model, we doubt that he’s heavily into fashion. If you peak through his closet, you just might find the blue jeans he wore in high school and the bright green tennis shoes that everyone makes fun of him for wearing. He knows what he likes, and he clings to what’s comfortable.
His likes and dislikes when it comes to clothing style (and even his hairdo) will probably not evolve much. Learn to love his look.
Chances are, his hopes and goals in life were set in before you came along. He’s already formed his own ideas on:
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